Jacklin AlbertToo often we act, dress, or present ourselves in a certain way for approval from others. One of the themes in this story is the negative affects societal pressure puts on people. The fear of being judged or not accepted by our peers will sometimes force us to reinvent ourselves in a way that is more favorable to the environment that we are in. We manufacture a façade to better blend into society rather than being our real authentic selves.
The Pressures of Being and Staying Married
Since divorce was not a common practice in Diane’s small, religious, community, she was left to deal with all the emotional burden of her stressful marriage. Gossip and rumors were known to circulate around Huntley like wildfire, so Diane was hesitant to legally separate from her husband and face the harsh opinions of others. This theme speaks to countless people who feel pressured to stay in their unhappy relationships because they don’t want to break up their families, disappoint their children and showcase their failed marriages in front of friends and neighbors.
Subtly Depicting the Theme of Toxic Masculinity
The novella stands out as an exemplary work due to its subtle yet pervasive exploration of toxic masculinity. It masterfully blended the intricate dynamics of abuse, control, and dominance in just a short read. This approach makes the book accessible and thought-provoking, appealing to a broad range of readers.
Frank’s character serves as a striking embodiment of the toxic masculinity that permeated our society in the 1960’s and still does today. As a man, Frank was expected to be the leader and breadwinner of his household and Diane working would jeopardize the image he was trying to maintain. The book adequately addresses Frank’s unhealthy need to control his wife and the extreme measures he takes to maintain his role as the shot-caller in their relationship.
The Strain of Racism on Interracial Couples
The discrimination and hardship people of color faced the 1960’s is briefly highlighted in this story. Racism fueled the mistreatment of African Americans and put Frank in a difficult position with his first love. The threat of interracial couples putting themselves or their mates in danger was very prevalent in the 1960’s. At that time interracial relationships were not very common, and those couples were often met with hostility. The fear of being harmed or threatened would hinder interracial couples from pursuing public relationships all together.
Closing Thoughts
This deep connection is where this novella acquires its significance as a vehicle for change. This story serves as an engaging in meaningful discussions about how the opinions of others affect how we present ourselves to the world.
